Tuesday, May 18, 2010

How Important are Your Decisions?

Life is full of decisions. How do you know when a decision is an important decision? How do you know when your decisions impact the lives of other people? When is your decision changing the future?

I just finished a book that my wife gave me for Valentine's Day. It's by Andy Andrews titled "Seven Decisions that Determine Personal Success, The Traveler's Gift". Honestly from the title it sounds like just another motivational book about key points to be successful. And that it is, but what makes this book worth reading are the carefully articulated lessons of life. This book helps you hear these messages from a new perspective. It is written as historical fiction but is clearly connected to real life today.

Here are some of my favorite quotes from the book (no spoilers). These quotes have an even better message in context in the book but they also stand alone. If you read this book, I would love to hear your opinion about it and some of your favorite quotes.

  • The ultimate outcome of anyone's life is a matter of personal choice.
  • You are where you are because of your thinking. Your thinking dictates your decisions.
  • Even the present is constantly becoming the past now . . . and now . . . and now. The past will never change, but you can change the future by changing your actions today.
  •  Do battle with the challenges of your present, and you will unlock the prizes of your future.
  • My future is immediate.
  • When faced with a decision, . . . in most cases God is waiting for me.
  • . . . if you are afraid of criticism, you will die doing nothing.
  • Most people fail at whatever they attempt because of an undecided heart. . . . When confronted with a challenge, the committed heart will search for a solution.
  • Indecision limits the almighty (God) and His ability to perform miracles in your life. He has put the vision in you - proceed! To wait, to wonder, to doubt, to be indecisive is to disobey God.
  • . . . to live life to its fullest - well, that is a choice.
  • Unjust criticism has no impact whatsoever upon the truth. And the only sure way to avoid criticism is to do nothing and be nothing.
  • While public opinion might sway back and forth, right and wrong do not.
  • . . . forgiveness is that it is not a reward that must be earned; forgiveness is a gift to be given.
  • . . . forgiveness has value only when it is given away. . . . By the act of forgiving, I am no longer consumed by unproductive thoughts.
  • . . . the person who lives according to the opinion of others is a slave.
  • The only limit to your realization of tomorrow is the doubt to which you hold fast today.
  • A person who is depressed is spending to much time thinking about the way things are now and not enough time thinking about how he wants things to be.
  • Constant detours do not bring a man into the presence of greatness.

Thursday, February 25, 2010

Intra-Company Training Network Building | ManagerTools.com

Do you consider yourself effective at building your network? Be honest and ask if you make the most out of opportunities to connect with someone new. At a professional training class or association meeting, chances are that you won't know 75 percent of the attendees.

Consider this recent podcast from Manager Tools that outlines just how simple building your network can be. Trust me, if you struggle with building your network, check out this podcast. You will be ready to start building your network immediately after listening to this.

Intra-Company Training Network Building | ManagerTools.com

Wednesday, February 17, 2010

Your FUEL for Growth | Darren Hardy, Publisher of SUCCESS Magazine

Your success is primarily determined by how you spend your time. Check out Darren Hardy's blog that outlines exactly how to make the best use of your time. See if you are up to the challenge.

Tuesday, February 16, 2010

Free Agent Academy: The best commentary on self-employment at this precise moment

One of the smartest people of today is, Seth Godin. I have read several of his books but recently came across this interview. If you are already an entrepreneur or considering it, check out this video. As you will see, Seth is very frank and clear minded. The video is about a page scroll down from the top.


Wednesday, January 20, 2010

Outrageous

In January, it’s common to make goals for the coming year. Success Magazine’s Darren Hardy has a program that is helping people plan not only next year but the next 10 years. A recent Ted Conference presentation illustrates one of the best examples of setting outrageous goals and reaching them. David Blaine discusses how even his failures have lead him to success. After viewing this presentation you will see how truly passionate he is about his vocational calling. If you are thinking about stretching your limits to achieve what seems impossible, you owe it to yourself to watch this video.

Thursday, January 7, 2010

Coaching/Feedback Template For Presentations | ManagerTools.com

A very good podcast that I listen to each week is Manager Tools. If you already know all there is to know about being an effective manager, this podcast is not for you. For the rest of us (although sometimes apparently elementary) this is one of the very best resources for developing effective management skills. Even for the information you have already heard before it fits the Covey habit of "sharpen the saw".
Why am I telling you about this now? 
The most recent podcast outlines how managers should provide feedback to their direct reports when their direct reports deliver presentations. Even if you are not a manager of people, this is an excellent outline for the most important skills you should exhibit as you deliver a presentation.
I love to evaluate presentations and training sessions. It is one of the most direct ways I know to help someone grow professionally. If this interests you, consider clicking the link below to go to the podcast and an executive briefing of the content of the cast.


Tuesday, December 22, 2009

"Should I stay or should I go now?"


FOXNews.com - Is the Time Right to Buy an E-Reader?

This is exactly why I am not an early adopter of an E book reader. I think these machines are really cool and I want one some day but I know the value of waiting. I like capitalism but I love competition among electronic retailers.